Showing posts with label David Lowry. Show all posts
Showing posts with label David Lowry. Show all posts

EMS Gala Raises Over 210K For Faculty Endowment Fund

By Jennifer Shaia, Judy Couri , Courtney Miglietta
Spring Gala 2012 Co-Chairs


The Spring Gala 2012 was held at the Alpine Country Club and a wonderful time was had by all who attended! This year, our annual benefit honored retiring Head of School, David Lowry, as well as Aril Lowry, affectionately known as our “Garden Lady.” On Saturday, May 5, more than 320 people came together to say “Thank you!” to Dr. and Mrs. Lowry.

Dr. Lowry believes that “the teachers are the heart and soul of Elisabeth Morrow” and requested that all proceeds from this event be directed to the Endowment for our Faculty. This year, more than $210,000 was raised at the event!

We sincerely thank all the volunteers, underwriters, faculty, staff, and administrators who made this event such a success.



Photographs by Shelley Kusnetz

Good Morning Mr. Cooper: Q & A With Elisabeth Morrow's New Head of School

On November 17, 2011, The Board of Trustees appointed Aaron C. Cooper as Head of The Elisabeth Morrow School, replacing David M. Lowry, Ph.D., upon his retirement at the end of this academic year.  Mr. Cooper will become Elisabeth Morrow’s seventh Head of School.  A few days after his appointment, Mr. Cooper sat down with Jennifer Brown, a reporter and writer for CBS Radio News, to share his thoughts and views regarding his appointment, the School and its future. 


Jennifer Brown (JB):  When you first got the news that you were hired as the new Head of School, tell me what you were thinking?

Aaron Cooper (AC):  It is something that Kara and I had spoken about quite a bit, particularly since Dr. Lowry announced his retirement, and we knew that this was a possibility.  The announcement for me was somewhat surreal, as it happened after a Board meeting where I had given a big presentation.  After the meeting, I was asked to stay, and the Board Chair came in and offered me the position.  I was thrilled.  So, after being at this school now for nine years, knowing it really well, and having put a lot of thought into what can be the right next steps for the school, it is exciting for me to be the person who can help steer it in that direction.

JB:  Looking at your bio, I realize that you have done just about everything at this school:  you have coached, you have taught, you have helped these students find high schools. What made you seek this position?

AC:  I can trace my aspiration to be a head of school back to my first couple of years in teaching.  I loved being in the classroom. I took to it right away from the standpoint of being able to create, maintain and enhance – to put my mark on a culture of learning and respect.  After several years in the classroom, though, I started to feel the desire to have a similar effect on a larger scale.  To me, as a head of school, that is job-one; the person in this position drives, supports and formalizes a culture conducive to everyone's learning.

JB:  About your early years teaching, do you have any fond memories so far at Elisabeth Morrow?

AC:  I have been through much at this school, starting here when the school was just nursery through sixth grade, and then eventually adding seventh and eighth grades. One memory that stands out is the first boys’ basketball team that Gene Love and I coached.  You should have seen the look on the boys’ faces when we won our first game.  They were so excited and proud of their school.

The previous year, I got to know all of my players well, as I had them in my sixth grade Latin class.  So, personally, this win meant a great deal to me as well.  I was hired to help design the Middle School program where one facet was the creation of extracurricular programs, including sports.  It was a great deal of work.  We brought in advisors, we had committees working on it, we devised a philosophy for the sports program and then we got to watch that come to fruition.  The first win was a great moment, seeing the students jumping all around at center court in their green uniforms and it being here on campus.  It felt like the middle school of EMS had arrived.

JB:  What is it like having your children attend Elisabeth Morrow? What’s your perspective as a parent?

AC:  Julia is now in Kindergarten (she started in the three-year-old program) and Charlotte just started in the 3's program this year.  So this is the first year that both of our children have been old enough to be in the school.  I appreciate the fact that I get to work in the same place that my kids go to school.  When I drive to work, I get to drop them off, walk them down to their classrooms and say good-bye.  Then, at the end of most days, I am able to pick them up after school and take them home.  Before and after school, I get to hear what they are looking forward to or what they did that day.  You can't put a price on that; it is invaluable.


Julia started the year I was promoted to Assistant Head of School, and that was significant for me as I moved away from being a Middle School employee to being a whole-school administrator.  My initial task for this position was to become more familiar with elementary and early childhood education, as my background had been exclusively in middle school education.  The combination of learning the position through my contact with teachers and principals, along with my experience as a parent watching my daughters go through this program and the effects that it has had on my girls' learning has very quickly helped me understand our program at a much deeper level than I would have otherwise.  For instance, my daughter Julia has been here three years now, and to see her go from entering the school in the 3's program, having been just potty trained to being now, in Kindergarten, on the cusp of literacy – of reading and writing – has been wonderful.  I have enjoyed observing how all the different pieces of the program have worked together to help her get to this place.  She loves everything about language:  playing with words, telling and listening to stories, predicting their endings.  To see that come to life in my child has been fantastic for me as a father and an educator.

JB:  You have kids here, you've worn a great many hats here, and it is clear that you are familiar with the school.  What challenges do you see heading your way next year?

AC:  There are challenges and opportunities on a number of levels.  One of our biggest challenges, which is over-arching and connected to all others, is maintaining and enhancing the sense of community that we have, both internally (between the faculty members of the school) and externally (with our families).  We've seen a marked increase in the number of families where both parents are working full-time.  We are also seeing farther geographic distance from which our families are coming.  So it's important that this place feel like a home for students and parents.

JB:  There are some big projects in the works for Elisabeth Morrow, in terms of the campus master plan.  Tell me a little about that.

AC:  This segues perfectly from your last question, because the underlying motive behind this initiative is community. We’ve engaged an architectural firm to work with us to develop a campus master plan in conjunction with the Strategic Plan and to address our needs today as well as in the future.  One of our big challenges here on campus is geographical in nature.  The level of elevation within the campus separates us into lower and upper campuses and, to some degree, impacts the unity of our community and the feeling of being one school.

Also, with the advent of the Middle School, there is need for additional spaces.  For example, we do not have a regulation playing field where we could host interscholastic games on campus, nor do we have a large multi-functional space for the whole school to gather, meet and celebrate as a community. 

Our intent is to develop a specific plan to meet these needs and others while creating a common area which would unify the campus and benefit the entire school.  This design more accurately reflects our spirit and our mission.

JB:  So let’s turn toward the Strategic Plan. This is more about program?

AC:  It's a bit more all encompassing than that.  The Strategic Plan is the Board's blueprint for the future initiatives and direction of the School.  While it speaks toward programs both academic and non-academic, it also includes human resources, technology, enrollment, and communications – basically providing direction for the School as a whole.  It becomes the document that will steer our work as faculty and administrators.  Now, as Head of School Elect, I will play a more active role in helping to articulate the different goals that we believe will make us as strong as we can be.


JB:  Well, let's talk about technology a bit.  There is so much new technology, new media, social networking – it's changing the way schools are approaching education.  There's a lot of talk about "no textbooks." There is a lot of talk about going "paperless." Kids are learning much more electronically.  Where do you see current trends fitting into Elisabeth Morrow?

AC:  I have a lot of thoughts about technology in education.  In general, I see technology as a tool that is used to enhance learning and it can have a number of different facets.  Within our curriculum, I view us using technology to develop deeper, more significant connections between our students and what they are learning.  Two instances come to mind.  When a class is learning about other parts of our country or the world, it's easy to gather information and even talk to people who live in those places or are involved with those places.  Using technology to garner those global connections and awareness is something we want to develop further.

From a more practical angle, technology is a great organizer, in terms of information and applications.  One thing we are currently discussing is the use of a "device" to hold all your textbooks, hold all your notes and hold all your work that is accessible anytime via the "cloud."  Not only does that make the backpack lighter for the students, but this way of managing and referencing information is also more relevant to the world today and more relevant for the kids growing up in this world.

JB:  When I think about all this new technology, it takes training.  How do you see yourself as Head of School supporting your teachers in this regard?

AC:  This is actually something I have been working on closely as Assistant Head.  We've formally established a faculty evaluation system.  We call it Faculty Growth and Renewal, and concurrent to that I have been working with Sarah Rolle, our Director of Technology, to set up our expectations for faculty learning about technology.  It has evolved from a series of training sessions, and it's currently a more teacher-driven program.  Teachers target their own initiatives, and our technology team then assists them in the training they will need.  It has become much more individualized.  As Head of School, my expectation is that we all need to be learning technology – each person needs to take his or her next steps, and there are always next steps.  This way we can deliver the program in the most powerful and relevant way possible. 

JB:  Is there an example of technology use in the classroom that you think has been particularly successful?

AC:  I have two that come to mind.  One is in the second-grade study of culture.  They have actually made connections with other schools around the world and have been in regular contact with a school in Australia working on a joint project discussing the differences between Australian and American culture. Our students have even “Skyped” with the teachers there, despite the 14-hour time difference.  So there's technology being used as a collaborative tool, connecting our students with children literally on the other side of the globe.

The second example is the work we are doing in the Middle School with virtual worlds, online gaming and scripting.  It has been phenomenal.  It is not so much about the content, but rather more focused on the skills students will need today, in terms of creativity, collaboration, communication, forming of community and character.  All of those pieces integrate nicely within these types of games, and the students absolutely love them. So, there is a high level of engagement. The Elisabeth Morrow School is on the forefront of this initiative within independent schools.

JB:  So when you say “scripting,” do you mean games where you read along and make choices?

AC:  No, scripting is synonymous with programming. Students can use programming language within the game to affect how the game goes, such as building a certain structure, animating certain features, moving from one part of the virtual world to another, or inventing the landscape within the game.  Students do this within teams and try to solve the challenges that exist within the virtual world.

JB:  Something I read about every day in my job, as pertaining to schools, is bullying.  Basically, parents feel like bullying is all over the place, at school, in texts, on Facebook and that schools don't do enough.  The statistics for middle schools are alarming; that this starts at such a young age, affecting both boys and girls.  With your middle school background, what's your take on it?  What do you feel needs to
be done?

AC:  I think the most important thing for the school is to establish a safe environment.  I think this is something that we value and have always done quite well.  If you look at the 4 C's (cooperation, consideration, compassion and courtesy), we have made this integral within our community from the youngest levels.  We also offer programs such as Advisory and Responsive Classroom that help students connect with one another.  This, along with the knowledge and care our faculty has for each individual student, which goes beyond any other school with which I have been associated, are dramatic steps in offering our students a safe environment.

Beyond that, we know that there may be incidents of students being mean to each other, teasing and bullying.  What needs to be done (in fact, what we have already done) is draw a line in the sand and set a firm policy.  For instance, as part of our anti-harassment policy, we have an external component.  We know that bullying can and does take place beyond our walls, so we have decided to make individual responsibility and integrity our business. These incidents, which can occur online, outside our academic day or off campus, filter back into our larger community and can have a significant negative impact.  This weakens the community, so we need to be able to address this issue even outside the walls of our school. 

The other aspect is this: when an instance happens, the adults in the community must immediately address it.  As teachers or administrators, we must first find out what happened, and then we must determine the extent of it.  When we have this information, we then must communicate effectively with the students and their parents in order to educate and begin the healing process.  If it's bullying, genuine bullying, it’s a more serious issue – certainly nationwide it's an issue, and  New Jersey has passed new anti-bullying legislation.  Nevertheless, we have to able to separate when it's "kids being kids," or when it is actual bullying, with intent to hurt or harm repeatedly.  Of course, we have an obligation to teach our students how to manage their concerns within a community, but we have to be acutely aware when incidents become extremely hurtful or damaging.  This is our priority here, we must be consistent about gauging these situations, know where that line is and work together to make sure everyone's health, safety and growth are attended to.

JB:  Last question:  what do you want children to take away from their Elisabeth Morrow experience?

AC:  I would like them to take away two things.  I want them to have a sense of what their interests are, what their strengths are, what their budding passions are – a sense of how they learn and who they are as a person; so in essence, self-awareness.  I believe this is such an important element of their development, as they move from early childhood through early adolescence.  The other thing:  I want our students to have a joy of learning, loving to be challenged, loving to find out something new.  I want them to come away with a strong spirit of inquiry – searching out questions as well as answers – because having a passion for learning serves people very well in life and certainly within their academic careers.



The Value of Our Efforts

By David M. Lowry, Ph.D.
Head of School

Winter 2012

During the last two eighth-grade trips to Washington, D.C., we had the honor of meeting with the newly appointed Supreme Court justice.  In 2010 it was Sonia Sotomayor, and last year it was Elena Kagan.  By dint of the projects that the students completed in history class and shared in advance, both of these impressive women met with our students for about 45 minutes, answering questions, talking about their backgrounds and experiences, and sharing their views on their new responsibilities.

To go “behind the scene” at the Supreme Court is stirring and humbling in itself, but to spend time, in person, with judges who are at the very top of our government, whom you only know from their media presence, is equally heady.  As I reflect upon these visits, recalling the exchange of questions and conversation between our young students and the two Supreme Court justices, I find my convictions reaffirmed as to the cumulative value of an Elisabeth Morrow education.  Aside from the good fortune of just being there and having this experience at this age (I certainly never had the equivalent), I noted that the significance of this meeting was not lost on our students.  Try to imagine: there they were, our thirteen- and fourteen-year-olds, poised, articulate, well-mannered (and well-dressed), clearly well-prepared and thoughtful in their questions (charged with relevant information), but perhaps most importantly, highly engaged in the moment.

As we were leaving, the intern who led us to our meeting room pulled me back by the shoulder, slowing my pace so that the students were ahead of me.  She said, “You know, we’ve all been talking about your students.”

“Oh, is something wrong?” I responded.

“Oh, no; we all noticed how polite and respectful they were.  How incredibly knowledgeable they were about the Supreme Court and its major cases.  What good questions they asked.  It is rare to see a group like this.  You are very lucky.”

For some, there are several quantitative measures that determine the success of a student or the quality of a school—tests, portfolios, placement, the acquisition of skills—but these things pale in their accuracy, in my opinion, when you are witnessing children embrace their curiosity, their desire to learn and to know. Truly, on these two occasions, our students were something to see.  I was as proud as any parent would have been, but I have to disagree with that intern.  Luck had little to do with it. On the contrary, luck does not propel these young people to this level.  The credit, in fact, lies with their families, their teachers and themselves—only when such synergy exists between home and school can such results be achieved.  The intern complimented me on our students, so, in turn, I compliment you, our dedicated Elisabeth Morrow community.

Although I can offer no standardized measure, I have seen with my own eyes the value of our efforts.

Built for Children: A Perspective on Little School


By Evan Brown
Director of Communications and Alumni

Winter 2012

“The Little School was given a new building specifically designed to educate young children.  Down the hill from her mother’s home, a model school was erected as a living memorial to Elisabeth Morrow’s vision.   ­­­­­As the decade came to a close, Miss Chilton bent low to shake the hand of each and every student entering the new building on Lydecker Street, echoing the graceful movements of Miss Morrow, who had always treated children with dignity and respect by looking them in the eye and firmly grasping their hand.”
           ~ Tracy Peter-McKee:  from The Elisabeth Morrow School, 75 Years, 1930 to 2005
Two years ago, when I got the call to come to interview for my position at The Elisabeth Morrow School, I was curious. Therefore, one Saturday in the spring of ’09, I rode from Queens to Englewood to see what might lie in store. It took a while to get there, but when I finally found the white shingle sign on Lydecker, I pulled over, parked my bike and walked up the stairs.  I stopped at the first landing to catch my breath and take in the view.  My first impression:
    “You’ve got to be kidding me.” This place was like no elementary school I had ever seen.
    When you climb the steps from the visitors’ lot, you pass vaulting trees with rustling leaves, flowering gardens, scurrying chipmunks, singing birds and the faint sound of trickling water in the distance.  It is also not unusual to encounter wandering deer or wild turkeys that drop in from the neighboring woods.  There are no gates or thresholds here. There are no tall buildings, no statues, sculptures or imagery of any kind to remind you that this is a place of learning.  Just a beautiful walk, a fluttering flag, cottage-like buildings, and, when school’s in session, the students getting a handshake and a “good morning” at the door, leading inside to teachers and classmates who are always glad to see you.
    If you are an Elisabeth Morrow alum or parent, there is nothing revealing about any of this. You may be saying, “So what? Okay, I get it.”  But, take a moment to remind yourself that this place is exceptional.  For most people, myself included, we went to elementary school in glass and brick oblongs, or concrete pillboxes, surrounded by burned-out grass fields, some shrubbery and an acre of asphalt enclosure.  There was no forest, no courtyard, no babbling brook, no smiling teacher at the door looking to shake our hand, let alone wish us “good morning.”        
    Furthermore, extra help wasn’t a one-on-one situation, unless you were the only one in detention.  I am not saying that EMS is the only wonderful elementary school out there.  I am sure there are plenty. Yet, it is important to keep in mind that The Elisabeth Morrow School, by most measures, provides an exceptional experience.  This was and is a school built for children.



“With its profound understanding of children and the developmental stages of their growth, The Elisabeth Morrow School challenges and nurtures each child’s journey toward maturity. The atmosphere here is calm and purposeful: busy hands and minds at work, with an emphasis on respect for all.”
      ~ David M. Lowry, Ph. D., Head of The Elisabeth Morrow School

Walking on that path toward Little School, you may see Mrs. Jane Phend, Elisabeth Morrow’s Principal of Grades 1 – 4, standing at the door, carrying on the tradition of Elisabeth Morrow and Constance Chilton, greeting each and every student.  She possesses a quiet and serene demeanor, a perfect fit for these pastoral surroundings.  When asked about the handshake, I expected to hear that it was a tradition, and you have to keep up with traditions.  Well, yes and no; instead, she says, “The handshake helps me make a connection, recognize them by name and make a personal comment as time permits.” It is no hollow gesture and more than just a common courtesy. The handshake symbolizes a significant characteristic of our school, as it has been since the beginning. It is a sign that we treat children with dignity and respect.  “I enjoy working with students,” she continues, “I like to get to know them, understand their needs and their strengths.  When children have an idea to talk about, whether a community service project, an assembly idea, or a concern on the playground, I like to hear those ideas and try to find a way to incorporate them.”
      In a school marking its eighty-first anniversary, however, tradition does remain important.  For instance, the third graders still study colonial America and culminate the unit by enacting a colonial schoolhouse, and children and teachers still dress the part, dipping candles, weaving fabric and trying out the stockade.  “While traditions may help to define who we are,” says Mrs. Phend, “we try to balance tradition with innovation and newer approaches to pedagogy and curriculum.”
    The “best of the old and the best of the new” mantra has been with the school since its founding, the axiom coined from a quotation written by Elisabeth Morrow in a letter to her mother.  Today, whether the lesson involves iPads or creative writing, the priority for Little School is to provide an engaging educational experience that speaks to all aspects of a child: mind, body and character.  “Skills and concepts can be taught or learned in any context,” says Mrs. Phend, “however, when teachers engage the children, actively bring them in, subjects are more easily and thoroughly mastered.”
    Mrs. Phend’s approach is the norm at Elisabeth Morrow, not an exception.  She simply leads a division of experienced and passionate educators, all focused on providing experiences that captivate the focus and attention of students, building one experience upon another.  The Elisabeth Morrow School is fortunate to have such a cadre of experienced professionals.  Over half of the faculty and administration have worked at EMS for 10 years or more.  For that reason, when Dr. Lowry mentions “profound understanding,” the observation is rooted in fact: our teachers and administrators have accumulated many years of working with children.
    In Mrs. Phend’s case, she has been an educator for over forty years, including twenty at EMS and six years at the helm of Little School. She and her faculty understand the developmental characteristics of the elementary school student. In particular, they recognize this as an age when students take significant steps toward establishing character and autonomy.  To this end, “Our priority is to meet the children where they are and provide a curriculum, both cognitive and social, that fosters positive growth and the mastery of skills and content."



“What I learned about teachers from shadowing students in school is that I absolutely admire teachers who love their subject, who love children, who love the developmental arc of the age they are teaching.  Every time I run into a teacher who doesn’t love the age he or she is teaching, I can sense it; it always feels tragic and terrible.”
          ~ Michael Thompson, Ph. D, Excerpt from "The Pressured Child," lecture, New York City, 2006

Providing hands-on, engaging projects and activities for a class of children is hard work.  Says Mrs. Phend, “From the simplest questions posed by students or teachers, to the choices of literature used in our instructional reading program, or to the problem-solving tasks in mathematics that may be integrated with other areas of study, there is a great deal to consider.  Our teachers recognize the academic, social, physical and emotional needs of the children they teach and plan accordingly.”
    Just down the steps from my office is a third-grade classroom where, last year, the students decided to substitute stability balls for chairs.  Apparently, it is good for developing core strength, the abdominal and back muscles of our torso. Whether they do or do not is irrelevant.  The point is that the teacher, Mrs. Bliesener fielded this suggestion from students, had them talk about and research it, and write up their own rules and guidelines.  When I last looked in, they are still using the balls.
    Think about that.  A room of young children? Bouncy red balls?  Seven hours a day, five days a week?  Seems like a gigantic distraction at first, but they have it working. Here is my take: first, the idea had to be entertained and taken seriously.  Second, the children had to be guided in procuring the balls and establishing their own rules for use, including consequences.  Third, they had to be guided to manage and oversee their own procedures, calling upon more mature behavior as they used the balls for seats.  It is not groundbreaking and it has little to do with the content of the curriculum, but everything to do with developing responsibility and initiative.  As Mrs. Phend pointed out, “We have a clear sense of mission, which is by no means just academics.  Our teachers work hard to help children become balanced individuals, supporting their strengths, creativity and interests, as well as challenging them and assisting them when perseverance is needed.”
    The stability ball initiative, as with many other aspects of EMS, is not necessarily embedded in the curriculum.  These endeavors are unplanned, and require additional attention beyond everything else the teachers must cover.  In many other schools, this suggestion coming from the students would never have been taken seriously.  Very few teachers or administrators would want to initiate such a project, let alone guide it over the course one year to another, from one class to the next.  Yet, such activities occur here, all the time. Why? This faculty loves children. They love the “developmental arc” of the age they are teaching and it shows in every morning handshake, every full-on colonial day, in every red, “bouncy-ball” student suggestion.  A great education is as much empowering students with the capacity and initiative to make their ideas come to life as it is about passing along the “core” skills and knowledge that comprise a more traditional academic syllabus.
    It is a gorgeous and serene walk up the steps to Little School; sometimes we miss these qualities in our hurry to get inside or because it is a trip made so often we no longer register the beauty in the details. We do the same with education.  In our hurry to get from point A to point B, from grade to grade, with a single destination in mind, perhaps we sometimes fail to see what is important along the way.  Remember that this school was built for children, both in mission and in facilities.  We can ponder the right balance between “best of the old” and “best of the new” in what we teach, but these things are marginal when we consider, how we teach.
    For The Elisabeth Morrow School, few things possess the same degree of priority as treating children with dignity and respect.  Mrs. Phend remarks: “I realize that the years students spend in Little School are only a small piece of their educational journey, but their time here sets the building blocks for who they become as middle schoolers, for high school, and beyond.”

Balance in our Information Age


by David Lowry
Head of School


Winter 2010


Before marriage and children, I lived in Hawaii for a year.  Around the corner from my dwelling was the WikiWiki Wash-o-Mat.  Wiki is a Hawaiian word for “quick” or “fast,” so when “Wikipedia” entered our lives, I got the meaning “wiki!”

When it comes to information these days, wiki is the best word to describe access; good, bad or indifferent, information and data from around the globe can be at our fingertips.  With email, it even comes looking for you.  Just think about your alma mater newsflashes or the EMS Wednesday Envelope, all dropped in our laps by Constant Contact or the like.  Add in the articles, jokes and YouTube videos that are forwarded on to you with little to no thought about quality, your possible interest, or much of anything else.  There are days that I feel it is “open season’” on my poor brain – I seek information and get more than I can use; others pour stuff in; I have to struggle to put together a defensive filter to maintain my focus.  Yet, I panic when our email and internet connections go down – how will I get my work done?

Some years after my year in Hawaii, I was the head of the Lower School at Friends Seminary in Manhattan.  While email had yet to enter our lives, the phone was still pretty active.  “Home-School” communication was almost as intense as it is now, except that the busy signal slowed things down and there was almost no voice mail.  Either you reached someone or you didn’t.  The receptionists would leave pink “while you were out” slips in our mailboxes, and calls were returned:  you reached them or you didn’t, and we occasionally left messages on the occasional “answering machine.” Cell phones were years away, so calls were only made when people were at home, not on the run.  

One fall day, the huge Bell Telephone switching station on the corner of 14th Street and Second Avenue burned to the ground.  The mechanical switches filled ten or more floors – no digital switching then.  What a sight!  We walked students out to Stuyvesant Park to watch the spectacle.  Pumpers, hook and ladders, police cars, sirens – I thought the kindergartners were going to explode with excitement!

And then, no phone service for almost five months!  Emergency payphone banks were set up on a street nearby, and every few hours someone from school would call in for messages that had been left at our sister school in Brooklyn.  Parents sent in notes with their children; the schoolhouse halls seemed so quiet without the familiar ringing.

A filter had dropped over our lives, both professional and personal – many of us lived nearby, so our phones were out, too.  We communicated through mutual friends who had phone service, and we didn’t want them to have to relay “trivial” information.  We became highly selective.  Since communication was slow and took real effort, everyone bothered only with essentials.  Time would pass and the emotion originally attached to a concern seemed to melt away.  The importance of whatever it was dissolved.  An unexpected peace came over the school and over our homes.

My plan for the New Year is to do a better job of constructing a filter for all the informational interferences.  Perhaps to turn wiki into lohi – Hawaiian for “slow” (full disclosure: I found lohi by going to a Hawaiian dictionary from Google; it took 3 seconds).  

Maybe what I am saying is that high-speed information access, some sought, some delivered without request, is here to stay.  It is part of what today’s students need to be able to navigate and use successfully.  They need to create some of it, too.  But, as in so much of life, a balance needs to be struck.  At The Elisabeth Morrow School,  we try to help bring that balance into young lives, giving time to experience, play, consider, reflect and move more slowly, be it on a field trip to the Hudson, in the cooking or writing clubs, or on the playground.


May the new year give each of us some balance to the frenetic pace of all of our lives.